I love the Christmas season as much as the next girl, and having a baby makes it all the more special this year. Everything we do, from decorations and treats to gatherings and celebrations, is shaping the memories that Caleb will have of his childhood Christmases. It adds a new joy and a new weight to this season and we are trying to be intentional in our choices and our celebrations. Even though I’m sure our traditions will evolve as Caleb gets older or we eventually add to our family, but these are five things we are doing to be intentional in this first Christmas with our boy.
The Four Words I Refuse To Say When I’m Hurting
I’ve hinted in some recent posts that it’s been a bit of a discouraging season with Caleb, and I’ve wrestled with control, fear, and shame way more than I’d like to admit these last few months. With my husband gone for work all day and long hours with an exhausted baby who just wouldn’t sleep, my heart has felt a bit all over the place.
As I’ve read blog posts and articles by moms in similar places, I’ve been so struck by some of the comments when women share their struggles. I’ve seen some version of a particular phrase over and over and I’ve been thinking about that phrase quite a bit: It could be worse.
“Oh you think it’s bad that your little one won’t nap? My guy is still waking up every two hours at night!”
“You’re discouraged because your kid won’t sleep past 4:45 AM? At least you have a baby and he’s healthy. You should be grateful!”
“You’re feeling lonely in these long days at home? Imagine if your husband was gone in the military or worked nights – then you’d really be miserable!”
These kinds of comments could be made about any struggle – issues at work, in marriage, in trying to start a family, broken relationships, and so much more. But at the heart of all these responses is the same idea: “You think ______ is hard? It could be MUCH worse.”
5 Reasons I’ve Loved Having A Pet And A Baby
Our sweet rescue dog Olive has brought us so much joy since we got her two years ago. I love her snuggles, her playfulness, and so many other things about her personality! However, I was a little nervous of what it would look like to take care of her when our son arrived. Would they interact well? Would I be overwhelmed with the responsibility of taking care of our high-energy dog when all I wanted was to collapse on the couch?
Fortunately, she has pretty much been the best doggy big sister in the world and I have LOVED having her around as I’ve learned to be a (human) mama. If you’re worried about how your dog and baby will interact, I’m here to say that at least in our experience, it has been really stinking fun and adorable. Here are my five favorite things about having a pet and a baby at the same time!
Caleb’s 8 Month Update
Eight whole months! All of a sudden it’s hitting me that my baby boy is almost a year old and it’s kind of mind boggling. I love writing these updates and reflecting on all of the ways he has grown and changed these last few weeks, so without further ado…here is Caleb’s 8 month update!
The Numbers
We just had a doctor’s appointment last week and Caleb is clocking in at just above 16 pounds and 27 inches long. He’s continued to be in the 5th percentile for weight, the 10-15th for height, and the 98% for head size (Real talk, I LOL at that one every single time!). So even though he’s small, he’s gaining well and the doctor says everything looks good!
A Letter To My Son In A Discouraging Season Of Motherhood
My sweet boy,
When I wrote this letter to you before you were born, I was praying over the impact your arrival would have on my body. I was exhausted from being pregnant, nervous about the physical effects of labor and those sleep-deprived newborn weeks, and I promised to love you even when my body was broken and hurting.
But what I couldn’t predict – what I didn’t know then – was how much being your mom would stretch and challenge my heart.
Caleb’s Seven Month Update
Seven whole months…what in the world? We are over half a year into this journey as parents and it has been such a joy, even as its challenged us and grown us. Enjoy some updates from the 7th month of our little nugget’s life!
The Numbers
Caleb is still our little peanut, weighing just above 15 pounds and measuring 25+ inches long. Baby rolls are obviously adorable, but I love that this slim little guy still fits right into the curve of my hip without killing my back and his little belly is oh so kissable.
Six Things I’ve Learned In Six Months Of Breastfeeding
Before I start this post, I want to say it loud and clear: however moms choose to feed and love their baby is fine by me. I trust that every mom is ultimately making the best decisions for herself, her little one, and her family, and as long as our babies are fed, I’d say we’re doing great!
Since my sweet boy is about to turn seven months old, it has been over half a year since we started our breastfeeding journey. Six months was my initial goal for breastfeeding, and now that he’s past that, it feels so natural that I don’t see any reason to stop! Learning to breastfeed has had its share of hiccups for both me and Caleb and I as we’ve figured out our own rhythm, but it has been a joyful experience that has transformed me in so many ways. As I look back on these first six months, these are a few of the things I’ve been learning.
Five Unexpected Things About Marriage After Baby
When I wrote this post back in January about my fears about motherhood, one of the biggest ones was how having a baby would impact our marriage. How would we handle the sleep deprivation and new responsibilities? How would having a little one impact our intimacy, emotional and otherwise? What would life look like as a family of three instead of just us?
If I had to answer those questions in January, I would have guessed it would be pretty hard. I would have guessed that things would be tense, that we would feel some distance grow between us as we figured out our new normal. I would have guessed that we’d have significantly less time together and would see some challenges arise because of that.
And you know what? I would have been completely wrong.
Caleb’s Six Month Update
Six months. Wow wow wow. It’s been over half a year since I headed to the hospital for this little guy’s rapid delivery (have you read his birth story yet?) and I feel like it’s gone oh so slow and flown by at the same time. This month has had lots of joy but lots of struggles, so if you’ve got a minute to read some long-winded ramblings…enjoy!
The Numbers
Caleb is our little peanut and I secretly I love that he’s still a little guy who fits in the curve of my arms. He’s weighing in at 14.5 lbs and measuring 25.5 inches, putting him at about the 5th-10th percentile weight and 10th-25th percentile for height. The doctor said he’s gaining fine since he was small to begin with (he’s more than doubled his birth weight, which is the goal by six months!) and that noggin of his is still in the 95th percentile, so he’s doing great! He’s still rocking 3-6 month onesies/tops and 0-3 month bottoms because anything else falls off his teeny little waist. This is exactly how Jordan was as a kid (and he still pretty much is) so we’re not surprised at all!
Our Mini Family Photo Shoot
When we were in North Carolina this past week, we had the chance to do a mini photo shoot with the one and only Haley George, my best friend from college and an amazing photographer currently based in Nashville. Haley has documented so many parts of our lives, including our proposal and engagement pictures, parts of our wedding, our pregnancy announcement, our maternity photos, and Caleb’s newborn pictures. Seriously, this girl’s the bomb and you should check out her blog/website if you get the chance!
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